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Small Victories

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kasey, Dec 11, 2014.

  1. Acm

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    Technically I used the men's room today, but it doesn't really count. I had to come to school for a special history lecture for AP test prep, and the only bathroom open was the men's room, so everyone had to use it. It was single stall too, so I don't really feel like it counts, but whatever.
     
  2. AfraidandAlone

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    i wore panties in public for the first time. was only in to a corner store and it wasnt busy and my jacket is fairly long so even if they hapend to be sticking out of my pants no one could have seen...
     
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    I've noticed that every time somebody lists going to the right bathroom on here, it is immediately followed by "but it doesn't count."
     
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    Yeah, it's such a weird moment though.
     
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    I'm gonna come out to my parents on Thursday!
    Gonna do my best not to chicken out this time.
     
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    I decided that I will be going by the name Alexander, Alex for short, now just to get other people to refer to me by that name.
     
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    Good luck! :slight_smile:
     
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    Wish you the best of luck, go for it boy!!
     
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    I am doing little things to gradually find my female expression. Removing all body hair is fantastic, tucking on a regular basis, just feeling the comfort of knowing my female gender is real is so lovely.

    Jenna
     
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    Good luck, hoping for the best for ya ^__^
     
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    good Luck son.:thumbsup:

    i say son because, yes i'm old.
     
  12. Acm

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    Good luck! I hope it goes well.
     
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    As I said in another thread, I came out to my sister yesterday. She was really happy about it and has been very supportive so far. She invited me out to dinner to talk about it all. It ended up bringing us very close together.
     
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    That's awesome! (!)
     
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    :goodluck: You can do it!!!

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    Great choice! :thumbsup:
     
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    Tried on some clothes in the men's changing rooms in a clothes shop. Usually I wouldn't even try on stuff, just buy it and try it on at home. So this was great to do. :slight_smile:
     
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    congrats!!

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    That's a great step!!
     
  18. Acm

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    That's great!
     
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    i finally have some really cute bras and panties such small things it seems so silly how happy i feel about it ^_^
     
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    Yup :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Went to the European Quidditch Cup at the weekend :grin:

    There's a few in your area, they tend to be university teams, but check it out: International Quidditch Association It's a mixed-gender sport that defines gender as a person's identity, not their designated sex (and explicitly includes non-binary identities), so it's an amazing environment for trans* people.