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What am i?!

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Hugh G Rection, Jul 24, 2014.

  1. Hugh G Rection

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    Hey everyone! So I am 15, and have been into girls my whole life. But then, this past year i met this awesome guy, and the experience changed me in a huge way. I find my self looking at guys more now, and have a slightly lessening attraction to girls. Any advice? Thanks!:bang:
     
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    You can be anything, really. :slight_smile:

    You could be bisexual, you could be gay-in-progress, even pansexual, but as a bi myself I of course always root for more of my kind! :grin:

    What is most important is that you stay aware of that you are perfectly fine - There is nothing wrong with feeling attracted to human beings, no matter your gender, no matter their gender.

    You're fine.
    Don't be scared, don't feel bad about yourself. There is no need to.
    Let it happen, observe, maybe experiment if you feel like it (If you feel comfortable doing so at 15, be reasonable and safe!) and find out more about your true self.
     
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    Thanks so much(!)
     
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    You're very welcome.

    If you have any further questions or worries, please don't hestiate to ask, that's what we are here for.

    And just one more reminder... never forget to be safe.
    With both genders. Whenever you feel like experimenting.
    I'm sure you heard this sermon at school before, but please, be serious about protection.

    Now enough lectures, anything YOU would like to know?
     
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    Well i have always been into taller, older people, does this make me a sub?
     
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    Based on what you said I think you are bisexual but with a stronger attraction to the opposite sex. This guy could have just opened your eyes.
     
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    In my opinion, you sound like you're gay. I say this because at one point, I thought I was bisexual with a preference for girls. However, with time, that "preference" got stronger and stronger and I eventually forgot about guys. Then again, you could be bi as well. Hope this helps. :slight_smile:
     
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    Please, for the love of all that is good, don't be so obsessed with putting a label on yourself. Many people think that being bisexual is an experiment, a chance to get in bed with a man and a woman so you can see which type of sex delivers the most pleasure. That couldn't be more wrong. Being bisexual is about opening up your heart to anyone. You accept that a man can be just as loving and caring as a woman.
    Make sure that you are driven by your heart, not your penis.
     
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    ^

    What that person said.
    Err. Well. I'm not so sure about the penis part.
    The penis is rather important. Just don't get too driven by it.
     
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    I think you could be bisexual. But only you can decide anything. If you want to talk message me.