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| View Poll Results: Would you take a straight pill? | |||
| Yes. gimme! | | 39 | 20.53% |
| No. I am what i am. Thanks though... | | 151 | 79.47% |
| Voters: 190. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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| EC Addict Full Member Age: 25 Posts: 570 Join Date: Apr 2005 | Ok, I'll take the idea form a poll that was up another site some time ago. If there were a straigh pill. A pill that just by taking it you would become straight. Woud you? I guess this goes along with the are you ever happy you are gay thread... but I thought making it a poll would work better.
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| EC Addict Regular Member Location: Wisconsin Age: 23 Posts: 278 Join Date: Mar 2005 | its a sobering thought, but I would rather be a part of normal society, and be able to talk about girls better with my friends and stuff like that. I'd especialy like not having the fear of not being accepted by other people; but anyways, "I am what I am, and that is all that I am" and I accept it, and nobody better try to change it, because thats not happening.
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| Guest | I've seen the same question asked on several different sites.. I would not want such a pill. Why change who you are for society? Isn't the great part of being human that we are different? I mean, sure it would be nice to be the same and not have to worry about the stuff that we do.. Though, whenever I've come out to someone, it usually changed their perception of gays and of me in general. They seem to respect me more and are more open minded about things. What could be better? Though, I think most gay people probably have thought, "Why me? Why can't I just be normal!" Though, "I'm queer, I'm here." :-D |
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| Member Regular Member Location: England Posts: 43 Join Date: Nov 2004 | I prefer to belive that I am normal (whatever that is) and have no need to change. There are always going to be people who dislike me for some reason of their own be I gay or staight or bi in the same way that I do not like some people. But that is no reason to change my sexuality! I would not take the pill and make the change. Stew |
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| Newbie Regular Member Location: Guangzhou, China Age: 28 Posts: 3 Join Date: Apr 2005 | Quote:
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| Member Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Peterborough. UK Age: 45 Posts: 49 Join Date: Mar 2005 | No, I wouldn't want to be str8. It's taken me too long to get used to being gay, and I think that the ups and downs in my life have made me a far stronger person than many of my str8 friends. Some of my mates have said they don't know if they could 'come out' if they were gay - well I think that makes me pretty special cos I've got more balls than they have, and I have their admiration and respect. I have an amazing relationship with my family - especially my dad and lil bro - and I think my sexuality has made us a closer family because we've had to sit down and have some fairly intense conversations - which I'm not sure many regular families have nowadays. However, if you'd have asked the question 18 years ago in some of my darkest hours of fear and self-loathing, I'd have said yes.......and made the biggest mistake of my life!!!
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| EC Addict Regular Member Location: Wisconsin Age: 23 Posts: 278 Join Date: Mar 2005 | David has a good point, I think gays are more open, its just something that develops. If you can talk to somebody about being gay, you are probably comfortable enough to talk to them about anything, especialy when your a teen.
__________________ "I am what I am, and that is all that I am" Popeye |
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| EC Addict Full Member Age: 25 Posts: 570 Join Date: Apr 2005 | I agree. Being gay is one of the reasons that I am how I am in other aspects of my life.
__________________ Cicciux Back from beyond. A different dog. |
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| Newbie Regular Member Age: 24 Posts: 6 Join Date: Apr 2005 | I can say with great certainty that I would not take this 'straight-pill'. I love being gay. I don't care if people hate it, I love it, all of my friends love it, and that's all I need. |
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| Member Regular Member Location: MN Posts: 24 Join Date: Apr 2005 | ya i enjoy being gay so i wouldnt take it......wait...maybe i would?? i dunno if there was such a thing i would probably take a loooooong time deciding. |
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| Cheers! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Location: DownUnder Posts: 3,825 Join Date: Dec 2004 | Well, I would still categorise myself as Bi - tho' I have to admit, I seem to be moving to being sexually more gay than straight as I get older. I do still find women attractive tho' - and I have to admit life would probably have been a whole lot simpler if I had been straight (or possibly it would also have been less confusing if I had been totally gay?) Hmm... Guess I really didn't answer the question... |
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| Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 38 Posts: 171 Join Date: May 2007 | It may be a cliche, but I can't even see myself any other way. I have all these fantasies about different things and the one thing that stays the same is that I am gay! I guess that is how I know that I totally accepted who I am!!! |
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| EC Guardian Angel Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 19 Posts: 1,717 Join Date: Mar 2007 | I wouldn't change. I like how i am. there are a lot of good things to it. not getting pregnant accidentally, lesbians having a low std rate, i know there's more...
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| Cheshire Cat Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gayer than not Out Status: Everyone who asks Location: Atlantida, Uruguay Age: 22 Posts: 5,080 Join Date: Feb 2007 | Now I don't think I would take it.
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| Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to Three People Location: Atlanta Age: 21 Posts: 230 Join Date: May 2007 | I wouldn't take it, being Gay has helped me realize a lot of things about my life and has really shaped the person I am today.
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| is lying less now. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: NS, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 591 Join Date: Mar 2006 | I'm really surprised at how many people said yes.... |
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Maine Age: 22 Posts: 486 Join Date: Oct 2006 | I would not. I am the way I am for a reason, and I'm happy that way.
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| "define normal" Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: out to most, ask and I'll tell Location: Oklahoma Age: 25 Posts: 1,206 Join Date: Aug 2006 | like others have said, the struggles I have had because of being gay, everything I've had to deal with has made me the person I am today, I wouldn't be half the person I am today if I hadn't gone through what I've gone through so no I wouldn't take a pill.
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| Away Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay & Proud Of It Out Status: Dad, Sis, Friends, Location: Jax, FL Age: 21 Posts: 3,867 Join Date: Feb 2007 | Hhhhmm, still a teenager, I dont know, not sure, and clueless Well, but i click on the nevar option, becuz there is no "nawt sure" option But being gay is like a training class for mw to make me become more clear of myself, being more confident with myself and others. If I was not gay, I couldnt ahve been like this. But still I lean toward" not changing myself', cuz I like to be this way
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| Well Known Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: suburbs of Los Angeles, CA Age: 20 Posts: 167 Join Date: Feb 2007 | No, I am what I am. |
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