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24th May 2005, 07:58 PM

To stray from the "What do you like in guys" thread a bit, what is that one thing that totally makes you melt about a guy? You can only choose one.

For me it's a pink shirt...particulary a collared one. I don't know why, but light pink shirts just do it for me. They make the hotness factor sky rocket.

Your turn!

hawkeye · 24th May 2005, 08:11 PM

oh god, for some reason, toned stomachs. To the point that I am not only extremely tickleish in the stomach. One time when I was doing this training for cpr with a (hot) friend and with my aunt as the instructor, we had to demonstrate the heimlich maneuver on each other. That must be the most awkward position, you have to brace yourself by placing one foot forward and basicly hug the other person from behind. You reach around and make one hand into a fist and cup that hand with your other hand and place them on the person's stomach so you can force whatever out. So, there I am with this guy behind me, his leg practicaly in my butt, and his hands on my stomach. I was practically paralyzed from being so tickleish. I just kind of keeled over from the feeling.
Something tells me that this story wouldnt be told by anyone exept me, and anywhere except here. It was just too awkward. Oh yea, almost forgot, this was for boyscouts too, for a little irony.

joeyconnick · 24th May 2005, 09:43 PM

Big arms. I don't really know why.

Well okay, big arms or this one particular haircut... that kinda undercut thing with the part in the middle that was popular in the mid-90s.

cowboy_wannabe · 24th May 2005, 09:48 PM

i don't know why, but "country" guys get me. guys in a trucker hat, cowboy boots and a big truck just completely turn me on!

hawkeye · 24th May 2005, 09:52 PM

lol, cowboy wannabe, I guess we should have seen that one coming!

nisomer · 24th May 2005, 09:59 PM

For me its gotta be the face and the hair. I mean, how can one possibly resist someone with a beautiful face and nice hair?

Micah · 24th May 2005, 10:05 PM

I'm assuming that this is physical traits.

I'd have to say...hmm... tanned and toned guys (Oh, that's two things but oh well).

goratrix · 25th May 2005, 04:56 AM

ok... don't know how to say it in english (plus it's 6:45 AM!).

But a guy with one of those wooden necklesses (or wooden thingys arround their neck) will just drive me crazy.

Funny, AC usually wears one, and I have to make a great effort not to look at it constantly... XD

Paul_UK · 25th May 2005, 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nk1114

For me its gotta be the face and the hair. I mean, how can one possibly resist someone with a beautiful face and nice hair?

That does it for me too!

Jordano · 25th May 2005, 12:35 PM

In terms of "melting" its definitely, most definitely the SMILE

that gets me boiling inside. Nothing more could do me in than a full, perfect, smile! It doesnt matter if their teeth are perfectly straight, just as long as they're remotely white! haha

The smile is a powerful thing and man does it do wonders on me!

cowboy_wannabe · 25th May 2005, 09:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jordano

In terms of "melting" its definitely, most definitely the SMILE

that gets me boiling inside. Nothing more could do me in than a full, perfect, smile! It doesnt matter if their teeth are perfectly straight, just as long as they're remotely white! haha

The smile is a powerful thing and man does it do wonders on me!

so do you prefer big, toothy grins or little shy smiles that are sort of mysterious in a way?

ok455 · 25th May 2005, 10:14 PM

Nice jawlines/cheekbones when i see a guy with that feature i just melt into a icecube. I stare at them forever

CryCrazy27 · 26th May 2005, 01:31 AM

fit, big arms/chest and a handsome face.

Jordano · 26th May 2005, 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cowboy_wannabe

so do you prefer big, toothy grins or little shy smiles that are sort of mysterious in a way?

Well jeez, if you put it that way, no, cause I love the hard to get too. But I'm just saying that a perfect smile turns me on, it makes me smile back, thats all.

6th Sep 2007, 05:46 AM

i love a nice toned chest, nt overly toned as in i love myself type chest but just theres some definition and muscle

wtinal · 6th Sep 2007, 06:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nisomer

For me its gotta be the face and the hair. I mean, how can one possibly resist someone with a beautiful face and nice hair?

Obviously, it would have to be a woman, but the beautiful face and nice hair certainly does it for me.

**Jim1454** · 6th Sep 2007, 07:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nisomer

For me its gotta be the face and the hair. I mean, how can one possibly resist someone with a beautiful face and nice hair?

Same! Can't really describe it, but handsome face and short hair get me going...

Beachdreamer · 6th Sep 2007, 07:21 AM

For me it would be a lady and it would have to be

Face
or maybe her boobs

no I know exactly what it is....

Her profile as she walks away from you - all curves in the right places with the promise of beauty when she turns around.....

Okay and that's me come all unnecessary just thinking about my partner walking down the hall - oh boy she is so beautiful!

davo-man · 6th Sep 2007, 07:42 AM

This is going to sound strange, but ive descovered that all the guys i find hot have really nice forearms and hands, and its what i look at when Im checking this particular guy out in English...

But, then again, a nice looking face and jaw line would do it as well

Moth · 6th Sep 2007, 11:46 AM

Changing it to a girl for me of course, but for me it's hips.

24th May 2005, 07:58 PM	#1
Aaron Guest Posts: n/a Tournaments Won: 14	What's that one thing? To stray from the "What do you like in guys" thread a bit, what is that one thing that totally makes you melt about a guy? You can only choose one. For me it's a pink shirt...particulary a collared one. I don't know why, but light pink shirts just do it for me. They make the hotness factor sky rocket. Your turn!

24th May 2005, 08:11 PM	#2
hawkeye EC Addict Regular Member Location: Wisconsin Age: 23 Posts: 278 Join Date: Mar 2005	oh god, for some reason, toned stomachs. To the point that I am not only extremely tickleish in the stomach. One time when I was doing this training for cpr with a (hot) friend and with my aunt as the instructor, we had to demonstrate the heimlich maneuver on each other. That must be the most awkward position, you have to brace yourself by placing one foot forward and basicly hug the other person from behind. You reach around and make one hand into a fist and cup that hand with your other hand and place them on the person's stomach so you can force whatever out. So, there I am with this guy behind me, his leg practicaly in my butt, and his hands on my stomach. I was practically paralyzed from being so tickleish. I just kind of keeled over from the feeling. Something tells me that this story wouldnt be told by anyone exept me, and anywhere except here. It was just too awkward. Oh yea, almost forgot, this was for boyscouts too, for a little irony. __________________ "I am what I am, and that is all that I am" Popeye

24th May 2005, 09:48 PM	#4
cowboy_wannabe Member Regular Member Location: Chester, Illinois Age: 23 Posts: 36 Join Date: Jan 2005	i don't know why, but "country" guys get me. guys in a trucker hat, cowboy boots and a big truck just completely turn me on! __________________ cowboy_wannabe 16//gay//proud

24th May 2005, 09:52 PM	#5
hawkeye EC Addict Regular Member Location: Wisconsin Age: 23 Posts: 278 Join Date: Mar 2005	lol, cowboy wannabe, I guess we should have seen that one coming! __________________ "I am what I am, and that is all that I am" Popeye

24th May 2005, 10:05 PM	#7
Micah ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to All Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 23 Posts: 2,532 Join Date: Feb 2005	I'm assuming that this is physical traits. I'd have to say...hmm... tanned and toned guys (Oh, that's two things but oh well). __________________ 　／l、（ﾟ､｡７　l、 ~ヽ　じしf_, )ノ

24th May 2005, 09:43 PM	#3
joeyconnick sine qua non Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 3,332 Join Date: Apr 2005	Big arms. I don't really know why. Well okay, big arms or this one particular haircut... that kinda undercut thing with the part in the middle that was popular in the mid-90s.

24th May 2005, 09:59 PM	#6
nisomer Da Jedi Masta Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but a few Location: MN Age: 23 Posts: 581 Join Date: Mar 2005	For me its gotta be the face and the hair. I mean, how can one possibly resist someone with a beautiful face and nice hair?

25th May 2005, 04:56 AM	#8
goratrix EC Addict Full Member Age: 25 Posts: 570 Join Date: Apr 2005	ok... don't know how to say it in english (plus it's 6:45 AM!). But a guy with one of those wooden necklesses (or wooden thingys arround their neck) will just drive me crazy. Funny, AC usually wears one, and I have to make a great effort not to look at it constantly... XD __________________ Cicciux Back from beyond. A different dog.

25th May 2005, 12:35 PM	#10
Jordano Well Known Regular Member Location: South Dakota Age: 26 Posts: 107 Join Date: Apr 2005	In terms of "melting" its definitely, most definitely the SMILE that gets me boiling inside. Nothing more could do me in than a full, perfect, smile! It doesnt matter if their teeth are perfectly straight, just as long as they're remotely white! haha The smile is a powerful thing and man does it do wonders on me! __________________ Jordano

25th May 2005, 10:14 PM	#12
ok455 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Can't tell L!O!L Age: 24 Posts: 420 Join Date: May 2005	Nice jawlines/cheekbones when i see a guy with that feature i just melt into a icecube. I stare at them forever

26th May 2005, 01:31 AM	#13
CryCrazy27 Member Regular Member Location: MN Posts: 24 Join Date: Apr 2005	fit, big arms/chest and a handsome face.

6th Sep 2007, 05:46 AM	#15
Tom Guest Posts: n/a Tournaments Won: 14	Re: What's that one thing? i love a nice toned chest, nt overly toned as in i love myself type chest but just theres some definition and muscle

6th Sep 2007, 07:21 AM	#18
Beachdreamer Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Quite a few people Location: Sussex Posts: 51 Join Date: Sep 2007	Re: What's that one thing? For me it would be a lady and it would have to be Face or maybe her boobs no I know exactly what it is.... Her profile as she walks away from you - all curves in the right places with the promise of beauty when she turns around..... Okay and that's me come all unnecessary just thinking about my partner walking down the hall - oh boy she is so beautiful!

6th Sep 2007, 07:42 AM	#19
davo-man Aspiring RENThead Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out (YAY) Location: Australia Age: 22 Posts: 3,709 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: What's that one thing? This is going to sound strange, but ive descovered that all the guys i find hot have really nice forearms and hands, and its what i look at when Im checking this particular guy out in English... But, then again, a nice looking face and jaw line would do it as well __________________ The Joker Rules all.... TwoFace comes a close second! My Friends are the best people in the world Ross: Wow, you guys sure have a lot of books about being a lesbian. Susan: Well, you know, you have to take a course. Otherwise they don't let you do it.

6th Sep 2007, 11:46 AM	#20
Moth Well Known Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Not sure and not especially fond of labels. Out Status: a few friends, one cousin. Location: "A fantastic place called Wis-consin." Age: 21 Posts: 115 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: What's that one thing? Changing it to a girl for me of course, but for me it's hips. __________________ and the only sound that's left after the ambulances go, is Cinderella sweeping up on Desolation Row.

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