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Old 26th Feb 2010, 10:43 AM   #1
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Old 26th Feb 2010, 12:46 PM   #2
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Routinely farted. Crapped once. Very unpleasant, but we laughed about it in the shower.

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Old 26th Feb 2010, 12:56 PM   #3
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farted xD its kind of something we ignored or laughed for a second and continued, never happened during the deed though just in between switching positions and such...
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...isn't that why you make sure you're 'empty' before doing anal?
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Old 26th Feb 2010, 02:33 PM   #5
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Well it was my first time and I swear when he was fingering, there was a small piece of shit on his finger.
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This thread made my night, thankyou very much.
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Well it was my first time and I swear when he was fingering, there was a small piece of shit on his finger.
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This thread is kinda gross lol. Farting I can understand but shitting is just ew. Like someone else said that's why you make sure you went to the bathroom beforehand.
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>>>isn't that why you make sure you're 'empty' before doing anal?

I thought I was. Ends up my stomach was a bit...wobbly that night, and I wasn't aware of it. Just one of those things.

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This thread is kinda gross lol. Farting I can understand but shitting is just ew. Like someone else said that's why you make sure you went to the bathroom beforehand.
Yeah it kinda puts me off....


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One of my friends, who loves topping as well as bottoming, gets COMPLETELY grossed out whenever anyone mentions farting in any context, but even more so when it's related to sex... and any mention of shit in relation to sex just sends him over the top.

But the truth is... if you're going to be using a body orfice that has a dual purpose that includes elimination of shit, you just gotta deal with it. And that's one of the reasons that I (and a lot of others I know) believe that enemas before sex can be beneficial, even if one thinks they're "clean." As long as you aren't having sex 5 times a day, the occasional enema isn't going to hurt you, and does pretty much ensure that things will be clean and fresh

As to the specifics, I know from talking to people in the adult industry, there are many stories of those sort of "bloopers" happening during the shooting of gay adult scenes, and most models and producers just sort of take it in stride as something that happens occasionally. I wouldn't be surprised if somebody, somewhere, has blooper reels of such things.
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u lot think of weird stuff lol. tbh who cares clean off laugh carry on. as for enemas i think they do more harm than good. just go to bathroom and clean and just go for it what happens happens
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Shit happens.

Unfortunately, as you learn to relax during anal, you can often get air trapped in your rectum- especially if the guy is pulling out and diving back in. You may not know that the air is there until you change positions. The combination of lube and air being expelled makes for some pretty funny noises. You just laugh it off and dive back in.

The same thing can happen with the vagina, by the way.
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But the truth is... if you're going to be using a body orfice that has a dual purpose that includes elimination of shit, you just gotta deal with it. And that's one of the reasons that I (and a lot of others I know) believe that enemas before sex can be beneficial, even if one thinks they're "clean." As long as you aren't having sex 5 times a day, the occasional enema isn't going to hurt you, and does pretty much ensure that things will be clean and fresh
Last I heard, enemas are an extremely bad idea prior to anal sex--they irritate the anus, wash away any natural barriers to infection, and make it much more likely you could contract something.

If you can't handle the only occasionally and even then usually incredibly minor encounters with shit that can sometimes happen during anal sex, then just don't have it.

I mean... people stick guys' cocks in their mouths all the time without those being "cleaned." Do we honestly think there's not some contact with urine happening there?

Sex is messy. If you can't handle that, don't have it.
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This thread kind of scares the shit out of me about anal sex.
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This thread kind of scares the shit out of me about anal sex.
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Damn anonymous box! That was me.
It's really nowhere near as bad as this makes it sound.
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Last I heard, enemas are an extremely bad idea prior to anal sex--they irritate the anus, wash away any natural barriers to infection, and make it much more likely you could contract something.
I decided to spend a little time looking into this subject a bit more and it turns out there's more controversy about it than I was aware of, and Joey makes an important point.

From what I can discern (and this isn't completely reliable, since it seems there are no decent studies on the subject), it's generally agreed that excessive use of enemas can indeed be unhealthy from a disease transmission point of view (as well as for other reasons) because enemas do tend to wash away the outermost layers of mucous from the colon, which serve a protective and antibacterial purpose. Irritation should only be an issue if either a fluid that's an irritant is used (such as soapy water, which is commonly used, but which I wouldn't recommend) or enemas are frequently taken.

From what I've read, the general consensus seems to be that enemas are not necessary, but that many people do them anyway just out of a desire to be clean, and that if not overused, and if safer sex precautions are taken (which they should be in any case, enema or no enema) there should be no problem with their occasional use.
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This thread kind of scares the shit out of me about anal sex.
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Same with me. Lol
Honestly, once you're "in the moment", you forget all about it.

But you just have to accept that sex is messy (and it's a hot mess).



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From what I've read, the general consensus seems to be that enemas are not necessary, but that many people do them anyway just out of a desire to be clean, and that if not overused, and if safer sex precautions are taken (which they should be in any case, enema or no enema) there should be no problem with their occasional use.
On another of the forums that I post on, I have a thread called "The Enema Controversy". It's another one of those subjects about which there are two different (and strongly held opinions).

Medically, there is no reason for an enema. Fecal matter is not usually in the rectum and anus until you're about to take a dump. The large intestine fills from the small intestine side (on the right side of the body). It spends most of the time on the right and center of the large intestine where water is reabsorbed and the feces are formed. When you're ready to empty the bowel (usually after a meal), peristalsis moves the feces from the right side of the large intestine to the left side and into the rectum. That's when you get the feeling that you need to go to the bathroom.

Unless you have a bowel issue (like irritable bowel disease) or you've just eaten a big meal, your rectum is empty except for mucus. An enema can actually stimulate the bowel and trigger feces on the right side to move to the left (and into the rectum) and you also have to be careful that you expel all of the water from your colon after an enema, so an enema can cause more mess in some cases.

What I usually recommend to guys and girls is to do what will make them relax and enjoy sex. If they are so stressed out about the possibility that there may be some smelly stuff- mucus or stool or vaginal secretions- or that they just don't feel fresh, then a douche, bidet or small enema (like a Fleet's enema) is fine.

Sometimes removing the worry about such things is better than not being able to relax and enjoy it.

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