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Old 1st Sep 2008, 03:19 PM   #1
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So, I have been having a lot of really good anal sex lately, as a bottom (all safe). My rear is a bit sore, but I have a hot date coming up with a guy who I want to sleep with. Any suggestions for getting my rear to feel better more quickly?
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Old 1st Sep 2008, 03:23 PM   #2
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Quit having anal sex until the date is over. Maybe that'll help.
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Old 1st Sep 2008, 03:46 PM   #3
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There are anal lubes with a numbing agent but I don't recommend using them. That or stop for a few days and recover. You're butt will thank you.
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Wait until it stops hurting...then have sex ?
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Old 1st Sep 2008, 03:52 PM   #5
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Coming up in a few days? Give the butt a rest until the date.

Coming up in a few hours? Close your eyes and think of England.

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Old 1st Sep 2008, 07:33 PM   #6
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Pain is nature's way of telling you something. It could be telling you that you need to lay off the anal sex for a while. It could be telling you that maybe you need to be asking yourself why you're having anal sex so often with so many different guys.
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Just take it like a man!

but on the real note, perhaps you should take it down a notch? or tell your date to go slow.
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dude i know what you mean. i get like that if i have a good session with my guy or if we go one and the another back to back. just take it easy for one day and you will be good. or take a hot shower and a couple aspirin for a quick fix.
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Oh, and if the top preps you right (which he should, dammit - it's his job), there shouldn't BE much soreness or pain.

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Why not take a break? Maybe it'll be better next time!
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Oh, and if the top preps you right (which he should, dammit - it's his job), there shouldn't BE much soreness or pain.

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it still gets sore ecspecially if he gets really into it.
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Hey, if you don't mind the consequences, that's totally fine. But I try to treat my guys with a bit more care than that.

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Old 5th Sep 2008, 07:20 PM   #13
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Such a first-world problem... Sorry, it's just funny that for some the problem is no sex, and for others it's too much.

This may seem completely obvious, but always use lots of lube.
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Hey this is an old post... but I'm in the same situation.

I'm Bi and almost never hook up with guys. A few years ago I was stuck on a job with military guy for a week. Really nice, sweet guy. I'm not really into guys, but was just drunk and bored as hell. Anyways, one thing led to another and I found myself ass up on a bed about 8 times over 4 days. He absolutely destroyed my bottom with his gun but I kept coming back for more. After the week I had to go see a doctor for help. Anyways we went our seperate ways but I have not forgoten the encounter but have not been with another guy.

Well, last week he emails me that he would be alone in town for this coming weekend alone. So excited about it and unable to stop thinking about it and unable to sleep I went out last night and met another guy who was far from gentle with me. It would not end - It was like 40 minutes intense almost violent anal sex. So my butt is a mess today and I have to see my friend tomorrow for another ass ripping round of fun so wonder what that will be like.
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Old 11th Nov 2011, 08:28 AM   #15
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Maybe you should quit having violent anal sex....
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take break give your butt some recovery time.
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Hey this is an old post... but I'm in the same situation.
Post #6 above applies to this situation, too.
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Old 11th Nov 2011, 10:58 AM   #18
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Yeah when I tighten my butt right now it feel like I've got a
Razor blade in there. Some guys fuck to destroy. He was pulling out
With every thrust. When he said you can cum I actually came soft with touching myself shaking. I came close to kicking him off me but did not want to be a pussy about it. And today I've masterbated 3 times thinking about it. At one point I whisperd I diserve this and that is when he shifted into all the way in all the way out mode nuts making a slapping wet sound on my rump. Feeling very gay today.
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